Today I want to come back to one of my favourite topics: reading and why it is so important to all children and bilingual children in particular. As I planned my post in the way I normally do, by creating a mind map of the topic, I soon realised that one article will not be enough to cover all the advantages. Thus this is the first post in a three-part series on the benefits of reading.
Reading time is bonding time
Sitting down with your son or daughter and reading to them gives you the opportunity to bond with them in a very special way. In a bilingual family this is an excellent opportunity for each parent to have some one-to-one time in their language.
Memories for life
Reading a book together creates memories for life. My eldest daughter loved the “Three Billy Goats Gruff” story and I must have told it to her hundreds of times. We still remember the different voices of the goats and how scary the troll under the bridge was – and what a relief it was when all three goats were able to cross the bridge and the troll was banished.
Books are a great way to introduce routines into family life. The bedtime reading is of course an excellent example of this. The story signals the time to go to sleep. Do introduce regular reading at other times as well – start a ‘Sunday Story Time’ routine, where you read books in the different family languages. You could also make reading a book part of your holiday traditions or take a book with you to the park and read outside – what are your reading routines?
Reading calms the mind
Again, reading at bedtime is the typical way to calm down, but it is an excellent way of relaxing in other situations as well. In today’s world where children are surrounded by an ever increasing array of electronic devices: computers, phones, games, TV and so on, a book is the perfect counterweight. And as one child quite rightly pointed out: it doesn’t come with commercials.
Learning about your children’s interests
You will initially be the one to choose which book you are reading for your child, but soon enough your little ones will tell you which is the preferred one. By their choices you get an insight into what lies close to their heart. You can then build on this and find more books and other resources in all languages your child is learning.
Bringing out emotions
It is not always easy for children to express their emotions. A book that allows them to speak their mind through a character in the book can be the way to tackle emotionally difficult situations. By asking your child to describe how a character might think about a certain situation, you will learn a lot about how your child feels.
Approaching difficult topics
Closely related to the above, a book can be the ideal way to start a discussion on a topic which you, your child or both of you find hard to speak about. There are excellent children’s books which tackle difficult issues such as bullying, racial discrimination, drugs and abusive behaviour, and are great as introductions to further conversation.
Part two and three to follow within a week.
May the peace and power be with you.
© Rita Rosenback 2014
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